Thank you for sharing your situation with us. It sounds as though you've been carrying the financial burden of the house on your own for quite some time.
Could you tell us a little more about what you'd like help with? For example, are you looking at ways to access money from the property, wondering about your husband's responsibilities towards the house, or concerned about what might happen to the property in the future?
If you can let us know what your main concern is, we'll do our best to point you towards the most relevant information.